Mediocrity is a disease

Apparently there is this thing eating up people especially in Africa where by people are so comfortable living in mediocrity.They are very okay being average in ever thIng that they do. 

what happened to being extra ordinary? why have we chosen to leave ordinary and average lives when we can choose to be the best versions of ourselves.

I think the reason to why we behave or live like this is because we have tried to get peoples approvals before doing the things that we love to do.Its not right,its a terrible thing to want to be approved first by your parents, societies,teachers or friends before you do that course at university,take up a certain job or career..no its so wrong. break that chain or fear and move onto making your own decisions because you are what matters most.

we have settled for less because we want to impress our parents and the people in our lives not knowing that we are being unfair and even doing injustice to our own dear lives. God gave each of us a life that we are to live fully and we can not waste this one single life we got to trying to live it like we have been told to do.

Do not let anyone decide when you get married,when you get children,who you marry,where to work,what to study etc...make those decisions yourself and you will not regret it.and even if they do not go right,you will not regret as hard as if any one had made them for you.

in order to break this chain binding us of mediocrity,let us do things that set our souls on fire even if nobody likes it but as long as it makes you feel happy,good about yourself because in the end,you are what matters.

the boss lady

Clearly a boss lady is an attractive lady.Although many men with low self esteem can not put up is a wife who is a boss lady, most cases they think she is bossy.Such ladies are most times career minded and i grew up admiring them,maybe the reason why i have grown to become one myself.

I think there is something about working women,that ranges from quite a number or traits like being principled,strict,assertive,shrewd etc that actually I do not find in other women. the world apparently needs these ladies to grow homes, organisations because most times women in big offices are more genuine than their male counter parts.

ladies out there,wake up early,stay late and bust your asses...its worth it.

A Motivation

Many are the times we wake up feeling like there is little or no spirit left with in us.Not because we are going through a rough time but because we have nothing exciting going on in our lives.The simple disappointments,the feelings of not being appreciated et cetera.

There are days that you wake up and you actually do not feel like going to work or actually do anything on that day,you do not feel like its worth it but then there is a force inside of you that keeps telling you to keep moving on.somehow when you trust that voice ,you stagger out of bed to the bathroom and head to work hoping to get a motivation.It is always not easy but when you keep moving,somehow days also move and you make it through the week alive but looking like a walking corpse or a walker in the series walking dead..lol.

forget not,however that we have found rest and solace in Jesus Christ and when you remember that He is actually God,there is a ray of hope that fills your heart and you keep hoping for the best.

As humans,he need a motivation in life so as to keep moving.it could be family,a good job,a higher pay,a good friend, a good relationship but above all we need Jesus.

Today i need a motivation because i cannot even find myself...well not because i have problems but because I feel I deserve better.